“I mean, we’re together and then we’re not. He’s like almost bae” Quit the nonsense and see if you’re stuck in a situationship! Enjoy, XO!
Now I know there are more than 4 signs to prove if you’re in a situationship, however, these 4 clues are what I find to be time-wasters and go-to signs that you’re in situationship.
You’re not introduced to his but his friends know everything about you. And when I say everything it’s mostly how you please your “man” physically. He tells his best guy friend or friends, how good you are at well, whatever it is you’re so amazing at.
Not talking to others yet there are no titles. So you and him are exclusive but not…so what the hell are you doing? This is different if it’s established that there’s going to be some progressing in the future towards an actual relationship, but if not…here is reason #2 on why you’re most likely in a situationship.
You all mostly text and when you do decide to hang out, it’s during parties or at one another’s house. The setting always (well, at least 90%) is late night where you all are alone or in a setting where flirting with people in a party scene is normal, it won’t be seen as or looked at as couple-y. Be careful, because you could also be the side-chick here *inserts upside down similey-face emoji*
You are liking or lusting for him for now for whatever reason. He’s fun (for now), he’s taking your mind off of things (for now), he’s making up a tiny portion of what you were missing in a previous relationship (for now) or for whatever reason. You aren’t necessarily thinking about your future with him – he’s temporary. Not someone you actually see yourself with.
Now, to me, situationships are a waste of time and for the indecisive lovers. We [girls/women] need and deserve consistency and clarity. They can be fun, (I’ve been caught in one before) but not worth the wasted feelings or the possibility of getting your heart broken by a boy who isn’t even really your man! Demand exceptions and standards for your love that will be met or keep it single honey!
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